Mixed written

Picking small pieces to change a future

There is a saying :- every men always say,I wanted to marry step wife though they know that they cannot marry another women keeping aside their wife. Every women asked, what to prepare for meals though there will be plenty of items. Teenagers always wanted to enjoy to the fullest. Someone who dream about future become crazy about their relationships and share everything. Girls become crazy about their relationships and always wanted to talk positive about their lovers though they know there are some negatives to be proven.

We chant mantra and wishes good day with the opening of our eyes, but as we grow old our mind diverts towards unwanted things that spoil our lives. Heart always wanted to keep in touch with our dear ama and papa, but this system vanished as we grow up.

We show anger towards our parents without knowing the hardship they have taken for us to reach where we are today. Infact we forget everything as we grow up and slowly our lives become difficult for us.

In lives,we experience different things, some positive and some negative but that is all about the fact of lives.

Sometimes,our lecturers asked us about the game that we played during our childhood days,cartoon that we watched,clothes that we wore,food that we took,books that we read,songs that we listen the most,etc. The lines above seems unknown,infact I am unknown with the above mentioned lines and I go blindly knowing nothings. Everything seems new.

I never played a game,never watched a cartoon and never listened a music though I used to read books during my childhood days because we were unable to afford for those things. We had a hard time surviving ourselves. I still can remembered my parents going jungle for collection of nettle plants and wild potatoes. There was no electricity and as well no roads. We used to take almost a week to reach Samtse and then back to home with the oranges in our back.

Now the time has changed and development has taken place. Lamps are replaced by electricity.Shortcuts that we used to have is replaced by roads and the most memorial during winter season used to be “crossing Faydii river till Dhamdum that takes almost 34-35 times” and that used to be the toughest job when there was heavy rainfall.

It's also a fact that,we live within our limits looking at our situations. Sometimes we feel the happiness and peace when someone just shows fake promise but it hurts more when the fake promises are shown openly. Dreams that we dream everyday become dream of unknown tomorrow. Bygones days cannot be replaced but we can always start a new living. Happiness that we get from others, by giving away our happiness means a lot.

Long process of lives has to go on. I feel like, I can be counsellor so that I can be help of the needy people. I have learned and experienced many things in life. I started my lives by playing with mud and stones. Who I am today is because who my parents are. They showed me how to live a life and even how to deal with a difficult situations with the open so called “HEART TO LIVE FOR OTHERS” and that’s the most expensive in the whole world. I respect and  love the people who has supported me in each moments,who has hug me and wiped away my tears in a difficult situations. I keep them in the “alter of my heart”. 
I keep many things in my heart but I fail to jot down because I feel I am not a capable writer.Indeed trying hard to write because I wanted to update my blog :-) happy reading :-)

Photos

Whenever I visit a place,I just take a click so that I can remember clearly. This time I have only photos that I have collected from different places. Beginning of the semester (odd semester) is quite busy moments as new students will be joining,lots of welcome gatherings,welcome shows (freshers night) etc.So I just have few photos for you all :-)

Enjoying the beauty of nature on it's own way-climbing on the window

Missing those moments...sometimes life gives us so much to remember

Beauty has its own way of proving

Beauty has its own way of proving

People has own way of living their life

Happiness is seeing sun set behind the chorten :-)

Freshers welcome-southern gathering#helpinghands

Evening is the best way of refreshing

Sometimes the clouds remind us of the enjoyable moment that has been past

Happiness is seeing the clear weather

Capturing beauty of nature

Noticing the beauty is self realization

Mother never get tired of guiding their dear children

Love to see prayer flags always :-)

Comparison of their beauty :-) -red,pink and white

Goodbye my beloved postbox

Droplets has its won meaning though it dries up within a minutes

One color can change the beauty of its surrounding

Happiness is seeing our college with the photos of His Majesty

Mixed Happiness

No matter what comes through our way. We have long journey to go through. Days are always remembered. Some people come on our way and keep print of them. Each individual person has their own personality which has to lead their life. Difficulties have to be the journey sometimes. Bad days are sometimes meant to be the most terribly moments but those days are always remembered throughout the journey.

During the break I stayed in Thimphu with my brother and sister-in-law. You know it was my first time staying in a shop. The very first day I stayed in a shop…someone came in and asks me to make doma, which most of the Bhutanese take as their favorite flavor. I was so nervous that I was shivering myself. Anyhow I managed to make doma but did not know how to pack the doma. I told him, “Uncle I am so sorry because I am new here and cannot pack the doma properly”. He said, “It’s ok num but just be careful with others because some customers may complain”. I thanked him and started making doma so that customer won’t see me making doma and as well I don’t want to be insulted myself.

I did not know how one month has been passed. It was all mixed and yes it was a jolly days in fact. Met many new friends….I was exposed to the environment and above all I got many knowledge. I went to Semichyong and I was so nervous there. First time, I went there with one of my friend and. I was so nervous and still remembered staying idle.

Second day was youth program. It was rainy day and I thought not to go but one of my friends came to pick me. I was nervous there because I was unknown there. It was tough time for me to manage but somehow I got a company.

Anyway mid-term just passed. It was a tough time for me. Working up early in the morning and whole day busy but it was one of the most memorable break that I ever had. I experienced different things during one month of break. I learned that a person who looks standard and highly qualified is respected more than just simple person who looks like a farmer. Nature of people is sometimes means a lot.

ABOVE ALL…… I was the happiest lady. I personally would like to thank my new friend who gave me the happiness.

I also collected few views on happiness from my friends: - One of my friends says, “Happiness for me is when I get new clothes and delicious food”.

 One of the first year students says, “Happiness for me is when my expectations’ are fulfilled”.

 Student from history 2^nd year said, she feels happy when she makes others happy.

One of the teacher said, “Happiness for me is when I received messages from my friends and remember me and also when there is heavy rain but no lightening”.

Above are the few points that I have collected from my friends. Happiness for me is when I am able to help others, when I see people happy, when I make others happy and also when I click about the spiritual things.